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Why People Seek Emotional Validation Outside Their Relationships | Understanding Fear & Avoidance Pattern

Why People Seek Emotional Validation Outside Their Relationships | Understanding Fear & Avoidance Pattern

Update: 2025-10-18
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In this episode, the Conversations team explore why some individuals seek emotional or physical validation outside their intimate relationships. Often, it’s not about sex but about fear, trauma, or unmet emotional needs in the primary relationship. They discuss how past experiences, including childhood trauma and early relationship patterns, can create unconscious behaviors that affect trust and intimacy in adult relationships.



Viewers will learn about:



How fear and avoidance shape relationship behaviors



The role of childhood experiences in adult connection patterns



Emotional vs. physical fulfillment in relationships



Common patterns when relationships become more intimate or face life transitions, like having a first child



Understanding these patterns can help individuals navigate relationships more consciously, foster deeper connections, and address unresolved fears and trauma.



💬 Join the conversation: What patterns have you noticed in relationships around trust and connection?

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Why People Seek Emotional Validation Outside Their Relationships | Understanding Fear & Avoidance Pattern

Why People Seek Emotional Validation Outside Their Relationships | Understanding Fear & Avoidance Pattern

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